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There’s No Perfect

When I was thinking about blog post topics for this week, I started thinking about all the things I didn’t accomplish and thus couldn’t write about. Then I realized, I should share that I didn’t get these things done, because I think it’s important to show you the “behind the scenes” of Peace Love & Oats. The things that don’t happen, the things I fail at.

Why? Because I’m not perfect. You’re not perfect. No one is, and I don’t believe there’s such a thing. I spent years of my life trying so hard to put up this perfect persona, that everything was always good, that I was always happy, and that I always had my life together. That was exhausting. Learning to love yourself for exactly who you are, imperfections and all, is so important to living a happier, less stressful life.

So what have I failed at recently? This will be fun…

 

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I fell off the May Cause Miracles bandwagon… stopped at Day 16 and keep meaning to start again… today!

photo 1 (9)I’ve spent way too much time watching Parenthood on Netflix this weekend…

 

No matter how many times I paint my nails, I always manage to ruin them within ten minutes…

 

My dad sent me an external hard drive to back up my computer a month ago. I still haven’t taken it out of the box (sorry dad…).

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No matter how many times I try, I can’t do just one grocery shopping trip in a week. I’m addicted/a bad planner. Actually, I think I just don’t like meal planning.

 

I have a huge pile of books that I haven’t even touched.

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Speaking of, I haven’t read my Chicago Blogger Book club’s book this month, or Julie’s book club book. I also know it’s just not going to happen.

I like a guy in my class but I’m too awkward/afraid of rejection to do much of anything about it other than just talk to him in class…

I tried to make my own workout tank top. #fail.

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I cannot keep a plant alive no matter how hard I try. I’m watching a “succulent” from Trader Joes slowly die as we speak… Maybe I watered it too much?

 

If I don’t workout in the morning, it never happens.

 

I’ve had a pile of hand wash clothes that I need to wash sitting in my closet for a couple weeks now. It takes like 10 minutes…

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You’d think by the end of this post that I’d feel bad about myself, talking about all the negative things, but I don’t. I think I rock. Seriously. I’m pretty amazing and I love myself and my quirks and bad habits. It’s who I am.

 

 

Your turn: What’s a confession you have? What’s something you love about yourself?

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  1. Haha I can relate to like all of these! I should have studied last night but instead I watched the Oscars. I had to throw out some produce in my fridge yesterday because they went bad. I’ve had a guitar in my closet for 9 years and I still haven’t learned how to play it. I could go on and on haha. 😛

  2. haha i love this post! i think it’s great to realize that perfection isn’t necessarily even something to strive for. in my mind perfection doesn’t really exist so we’re never going to get there anyway. but for real – back up your computer. like…NOW. throw in a load of laundry and then back it up because you will never regret it but you will be so mad if something happens to your laptop and you lose all your stuff. oh and ask that boy out 🙂

    • Oh I’ve already lost everything on my laptop once. Although now I save all my school notes on dropbox. Still need to do it so I don’t lose my photos.

  3. Perfection is so, so overrated! Everyone has bad habits and things that they don’t get done – it’s part of the human experience.
    My confession: I take ridiculously long, hot showers. Horribly wasteful habit, but I just get in there and start contemplating life. Oops.

  4. Honestly lady I think think this is awesome…who wants to read about a “perfect little blogger” every day so you can just feel like crap about yourself? Not me! Im blogging about a challenge right now to eat whole foods for 50 days, and last week I went off the bandwagon BIG time. I mean I went OFF. I debated what to do, especially since I was getting so many comments from friends and family about what an “inspiration” I was. But what fun is that, people thinking you are perfect?

    So thanks for the honesty! You rock!

    • It’s best to be honest, otherwise people feel so down on themselves about not being able to do something you can do, when you aren’t! And um, 50 days?! Haha I’d fall right off that wagon too!

  5. AMAZING post Katie! OMG I love you to pieces girl! Such a true post! SO many people will love this one. I’m going to share it on Twitta and FB 😉 <3

    Something I love about myself? The fact that I'm able to turn a bad mood into a good one really quickly with some positive self talk/thoughts

    Something I need to confess? I don't feel like texting this morning, so I'm pretending my phone is dead. It's going off like crazy, but I just do not want to chat right now haha

    Love you

    • Aw thanks for the shares, Meg! And I LOVE your positive attitude! Sometimes I go “invisible” on gchat because I don’t feel like talking to anyone…

  6. Great post topic! I could go on and on about the things I’ve failed at recently…blah. I can’t seem to get the motivation to blog, Working out has just made me feel more tired lately, oh and I am the same with the food shopping! I always plan horribly for grocery trips and then I end up having to go way too much! Oh well…!

    • Some of us just aren’t meant to meal plan! And and maybe take a few days off of working out to recharge your battery? That always helps me when I’m feeling run-down.

  7. It’s always good to remember that no one is perfect. Glad to know I’m not the only one who has a big to do list I didn’t get to. Like my research paper I didn’t quite get to work on and the house that wasn’t cleaned. Talk to that guy!!!! I’m always scared of rejection or embarrassment but often regret when I don’t talk to someone out of fear.

  8. Since I have the attention span of a small puppy, it causes me to fall off of a lot of bandwagons. haha I dont have anything specific at the moment but it happens A LOT!
    in other news, I feel like I am very on top of my finances lately which is a huge plus!

  9. Perfection isn’t nearly as fun in life! I have laundry on my floor that I should put away, but it’s easier if I don’t. I have paper that needs cut for my wedding, but it is still sitting on my coffee table. I have work to get done, but I enjoy reading blogs more 🙂 There are always things that I fail at getting done, but life goes on and we just move on 🙂

  10. I’m a constant reader and I usually never comment, but this post is one I must respond to. We are alike in that we have these long to do lists that, if accomplished, will make me feel like i have my act together (therefore closer to perfect). And as the weekend ends, as always, some of my weekend intentions didnt actually happen and this can get me down. But we need to remember that those are standards and expectations are not real and only have been created in our own heads. Things we tell ourselves will make us better people. We are as close to perfect now as we will ever be. Thank you for reminding me of this today!

    • We are definitely alike in that aspect! I need to just quit with the “To Do” lists all together… And I agree – it’s all in our own heads! Hope you have a great day!

  11. Confession: I rarely do my own laundry and instead take it home to do it there where my mom does it 90% of the time.
    I had grand plans to get a lot done on Saturday and instead I sat on the couch. I feel like I should be embarrassed by these facts, but I’m not. And that’s okay with me.

  12. I have a growing pile of clothes that need to be taken to the dry cleaners but just haven’t made the trip yet. What’s worse is there is a cleaners in my building and one on my walk to the ‘l’ every day. Maybe when I run out of work clothes, I’ll be forced to drop them off?

  13. I bought dresser drawers for when I moved to Chicago, and before I moved my dad checked to see if all the parts were there. One set was missing a screw, so he had the company ship a replacement screw to our house, but it didn’t get there before I moved so my dad then sent it on to me. That was in June…and I still have the unopened envelope with that screw sitting on my desk. Whoops. Haha.

  14. So… I think you kind of rock as well 😀 I seriously love this post and the message that it sends out. It can be a little disheartening to hear about peoples successes and accomplishments all the time when you’re more than aware of your own shortcomings, so reminders that no one is perfect are so refreshingly wonderful. Thank you 🙂

    My confession? I’m absolutely horrible at responding to text messages and e-mails… I put them off for so long and then they pile up to the point where I can’t ignore them anymore, which is when I have to sit down and get to it in one big production. Woof. I definitely wish I had a better approach…

  15. I do so many of the same things! I feel like I always have a list of things to do that never ends! I tried making one of those tanks and trust me it is impossible! Mine looked way worse than yours!

  16. I am SO bad at handwashing my clothes too! They seriously sit in a pile for weeks until I get around to it. Other things I am trying to work on (aka, just not really working on…) include: making sure I bring my lunch to work, actually following my meal/fitness plans each week and emptying the dryer when the cycle is finished instead of leaving clothes in there for days on end.

    • You’re lucky you can leave your clothes in the dryer! I have to use the building laundry room and it’s so annoying because you have to hang around for 3 hours until it’s all done!

  17. I loooooooove this post!! Especially because I laughed because I CAN RELATE. SO many of those things are me. Like the handwashing thing-the stack of books-the not keeping a plant alive. Amen.

    p.s. thANK YOU FOR YOUR sweet card!!!! You’re such a doll. Can’t wait to wear the cute accessories!

  18. I loved readin this post. I related to basically everything you said and it just goes to show that we are not alone in these imperfections of ours. And props to you for saying how awesome you are at the end! But it also makes me wonder WHY you haven’t talked the guy yet….he could think you’re awesome too! DO IT!

  19. You just made me really want to write a similar post sometime this week. Love this, girl. You are absolutely right. NO ONE is perfect, and rather than beat ourselves up, we should celebrate that as making things more interesting 🙂 I, too, watched entirely too much parenthood this weekend and failed at going to at least one yoga class a week in February, since I just wasn’t up to doing much last week after work. And that’s ok 😛

  20. I’ve been meaning to do something with the 30+ heart balloons from my birthday/valentines day in my living room. They’re just so fun! Plus I don’t know what to do with them. I think my body can only handle so much helium fun at one time!

  21. You are so sweet!
    1. My workout clothes are sitting in a pile and need to be washed (haha or flat out burned!). My fiancé said they reek. Oops?
    2. I am way behind on planning my wedding because I have to actually… Plan my wedding. Double oops.
    3. I would rather binge on Shameless and House of Cards (aka why 1 and 2 have occurred).

    Boo! 🙂

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